Consistency is a love language. It separates the opportunists from the committed. -Acamea Deadwiler I wrote that quote because I believe that inconsistency is a form of emotional abuse. Don’t let people near your heart with this toxic behavior. People loved the quote so much that I also put it Read more…
You are enough. You are loved. You are a person of substance. You are complete, independent of whether or not you have a partner. I know this doesn’t always help. Self-assurance can’t hold you at night or join you for a movie. It can’t listen to you vent about work, Read more…
One of my favorite quotes is by Rumi, it says: “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” This is one of my favorites because I believe it epitomizes the ultimate issue. Love is something that Read more…
One of the most common reasons I hear given for why people are single, especially women, is that their expectations are too high or unrealistic. This myth bothers me a bit more than the others— I cover it and more in my book, “Single That: Dispelling the Top 10 Myths Read more…
Our hormones and emotions sometimes do what they want with little regard for logic or purpose. I want to know that you chose me, and that you choose me again every day. Leave no room for doubt or indifference.
Guest Co-Host on The Mountain Top Podcast for Men
I won’t give up, if you don’t give up. Life, Love and the Pursuit Of explores some of our universal challenges in life, using Acamea’s personal experiences as a guide. It will challenge your way of thinking, your way of doing and living as a means to inspire and encourage. Read more…
Acamea’s acclaimed memoir follows her through the fall-out, the recovery, and the redemption from a uniquely significant event in her childhood. Now out of print.